Happy holidays coming up?
Holidays bring you enough things to do and think about and some of those things are not that pleasant, like drama and tension. How to make the holidays easier? Read on.
Take a minute to imagine that you have a happy holiday season with mom, your family, your spouse and the kids. That everything falls in place. You get the support you need. See yourself sitting at the dinner table with your loved ones. Everybody you want to have at your table, is present. The food tastes great, and smells delicious. Soft candle light shines at the table. It looks fabulous. There are no hard feelings and everybody is enjoying each other’s company. Everybody is having a great time. This is the great gift of family togetherness. Best of all, all your loved ones see that you play a central role in bringing the family together in this state of caring and joy and they love you for it!
Maybe reality is gruesome different for most of us as relationships can be full of awkward tension. But how would you like to be done with the stress, aggravation, the tiresome drama and endless going back and forth? You know you can’t please everybody. You know it’s hard enough to at the least please yourself. Do you have enough of compromises and stress during the holidays?
If so, there is a way. Decide today that this holiday season is going to be different.
Decide that you will have more control, more peace of mind, more ease and importantly also more fun.
How can you have more control, more peace of mind, ease and more fun?
What is the key to this? The key to happiness is setting up happy relationships.
For this holiday season, take it step by step and start with the major relationship: the one with your mother. Learn these valuable relationship skills and be forever done with relationship stress!
Learn how to:
- Take charge of your unwanted emotions like sadness, anger, upset;
- What to say and what not to say to your mother;
- Turn a bad relationship around into something that works for you;
- Deal effectively with hurt and make room for positive feelings;
- Start to feel truly happy;
- Get the support you need from your loved ones;
- Be more happy with yourself!
Have a great holiday season filled with deep affection and love!